Bond makes sense! With the attachment glasses of emotion-focused couples therapy (EFT) chaotic relationship dynamics of couples become the (currently) best possible attempt to maintain the threatened bond. This perspective opens the space for recognizing the very specific dynamics of each couple. It also sets the goal, namely the restoration of a secure basis between the partners. Lorrie L. Brubacher shows how this can be achieved. Step by step she takes her readership - interested couple therapists, EFT therapists in training and years of practice - by the hand and accompanies them through the therapeutic process with all its snares and pitfalls