How we can help to break the cycle of violence? Bullying is often dismissed as a normal part of childhood, but it is a deadly triad: bullies who terrorise, bullied kids who are afraid to tell, bystanders who watch, participate, or look away. Drawing on her decades of work with young people bestselling author and educator Barbara Coloroso explains: the three kinds of bullying, and the differences between bullying by boys and bullying by girls; four skills that protect your child from succumbing to bullying; seven steps to take if your child is a bully; how to help the bullied child heal and how to effectively discipline the bully; how to evaluate a school's anti-bullying policy; and much more.